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When the Lamp Runs Dry

by Joseph Langenbach  |  11/08/2026  |  Weekly Column

A lamp does not go out all at once. Its flame weakens when the oil runs low. In Sunday's Gospel, Jesus tells of ten virgins waiting for the bridegroom. Five carried oil, while five found their lamps failing.

Their struggle sounds familiar since we rarely abandon prayer in one brief moment. Distractions grow, excuses become habits, and prayer fades. We appear faithful, yet our hearts need care.

The oil reminds us that faith requires daily care. Grace is God's gift, not something we earn by work alone. Yet we must respond to that gift through prayer, repentance, charity, and a desire to follow Christ. The Eucharist and Reconciliation strengthen our response.

Notice that all ten virgins became drowsy and fell asleep. The difference was not that some never struggled at all. The wise had prepared before the long wait began. Their readiness grew from choices made when there was still time, in small ways, day by day, as they kept watch and made room for hope.

We often tell ourselves that we will return to confession later. We promise to pray when life slows down. But our friendship with Christ deserves more than the moments left over after everything else. Love grows when we make room for the One who first loved us.

This Gospel offers hope as Christ calls us to vigilance because He desires us to share His joy. His mercy welcomes the sinner who turns back to Him today. No tired heart needs to remain distant from His grace.

Ask yourself what is feeding your spiritual life right now. Is your lamp being tended, or have you neglected its flame? Begin again with one honest prayer, one act of charity, or a return to the sacraments. Prepare to welcome Christ, not with fear, but with a heart ready to love.

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